Ward teaches you that it multiple sexual autonomy and rigidity using a move regarding childishness, a hug out of boyish sex certainly one of adult men, that is “implicitly heterosexual however, mainly male-bonded, sometimes vicious, and you may dependent with the a hostile enjoyment off grossness plus the asshole.”

Hands-with the have fun with most other men’s room authorities is actually, while the name from Ward’s guide encapsulates, coded given that “perhaps not gay” into the balancing serves between attract, repulsion, and you can titillation. (more…)